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Noticing cognitive change: from messy to orderly
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Noticing cognitive change: from messy to orderly

If you have already tried noticing cognitive change and dropped it, the fault is usually in the setup: a starting point set too high, an environment…

Silas TurnerSilas Turner·April 26, 2026·4 min read
Choosing age-friendly furniture: for people with no spare time
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Choosing age-friendly furniture: for people with no spare time

If you have already tried choosing age-friendly furniture and dropped it, the fault is usually in the setup: a starting point set too high, an…

Imogen ClareImogen Clare·April 20, 2026·4 min read
Picking a walking aid: turning choices into a process
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Picking a walking aid: turning choices into a process

Anyone who has spent time on picking a walking aid has a failure story: a strong start, a collapse in the middle, then silence. This is not another…

Malcolm ReidMalcolm Reid·April 14, 2026·4 min read
Bathroom safety: from messy to orderly
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Bathroom safety: from messy to orderly

If you only read one paragraph, read this: bathroom safety depends on how the situation is set up, not on how you feel at the time. Arrange the…

Harriet LowellHarriet Lowell·April 8, 2026·4 min read
Managing room temperature: how to tell you are doing it right
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Managing room temperature: how to tell you are doing it right

Most people do not fail at managing room temperature from misunderstanding it. They fail because understanding is not doing. What follows is the…

Silas TurnerSilas Turner·April 2, 2026·4 min read
Mood and social contact: five common misreadings
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Mood and social contact: five common misreadings

Put mood and social contact back into a real week, with overtime, travel and days you cannot be bothered. Any plan that only survives good months…

Imogen ClareImogen Clare·March 27, 2026·4 min read
Splitting care shifts: when a professional should step in
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Splitting care shifts: when a professional should step in

Most people want splitting care shifts to make things better. The workable version of that goal is steadier: a floor you can hit on a bad day.…

Malcolm ReidMalcolm Reid·March 21, 2026·4 min read
The long-term cost of care: five common misreadings
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The long-term cost of care: five common misreadings

Separate two things in the long-term cost of care: the outcome you want and the action you can sustain. When the gap is too wide, shrink the action…

Harriet LowellHarriet Lowell·March 15, 2026·4 min read
A hospital bag list: the version that fits a real home
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A hospital bag list: the version that fits a real home

Most people want a hospital bag list to make things better. The workable version of that goal is steadier: a floor you can hit on a bad day.…

Silas TurnerSilas Turner·March 9, 2026·4 min read
Accompanying rehab work: costing it honestly
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Accompanying rehab work: costing it honestly

Advice on accompanying rehab work tends to split in two: impossibly complex, or sold as one click. Reality sits between. It needs some patience and…

Imogen ClareImogen Clare·March 3, 2026·4 min read
Starting the conversation about the end: the version that fits a real home
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Starting the conversation about the end: the version that fits a real home

Separate two things in starting the conversation about the end: the outcome you want and the action you can sustain. When the gap is too wide, shrink…

Malcolm ReidMalcolm Reid·February 25, 2026·4 min read
Respite for the carer: the version that fits a real home
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Respite for the carer: the version that fits a real home

Separate two things in respite for the carer: the outcome you want and the action you can sustain. When the gap is too wide, shrink the action…

Harriet LowellHarriet Lowell·February 19, 2026·4 min read
Non-slip changes at home: only a few moves matter
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Non-slip changes at home: only a few moves matter

If you have already tried non-slip changes at home and dropped it, the fault is usually in the setup: a starting point set too high, an environment…

Silas TurnerSilas Turner·September 11, 2026·4 min read
Where grab bars belong: the long game versus the quick fix
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Where grab bars belong: the long game versus the quick fix

Most people want where grab bars belong to make things better. The workable version of that goal is steadier: a floor you can hit on a bad day.…

Imogen ClareImogen Clare·September 5, 2026·4 min read
Night lighting that prevents falls: from messy to orderly
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Night lighting that prevents falls: from messy to orderly

Advice on night lighting that prevents falls tends to split in two: impossibly complex, or sold as one click. Reality sits between. It needs some…

Malcolm ReidMalcolm Reid·August 30, 2026·4 min read
A medication reminder system: when a professional should step in
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A medication reminder system: when a professional should step in

Most people want a medication reminder system to make things better. The workable version of that goal is steadier: a floor you can hit on a bad day.…

Harriet LowellHarriet Lowell·August 24, 2026·4 min read
Check-in routines for someone alone: the version that fits a real home
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Check-in routines for someone alone: the version that fits a real home

If you have already tried check-in routines for someone alone and dropped it, the fault is usually in the setup: a starting point set too high, an…

Silas TurnerSilas Turner·August 18, 2026·4 min read
Setting up a phone for an older person: turning choices into a process
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Setting up a phone for an older person: turning choices into a process

Most people want setting up a phone for an older person to make things better. The workable version of that goal is steadier: a floor you can hit on…

Imogen ClareImogen Clare·August 12, 2026·4 min read
Preparing for a hospital visit: how to start and how to keep it
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Preparing for a hospital visit: how to start and how to keep it

Put preparing for a hospital visit back into a real week, with overtime, travel and days you cannot be bothered. Any plan that only survives good…

Malcolm ReidMalcolm Reid·August 6, 2026·4 min read
Handing over a condition file: the version that fits a real home
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Handing over a condition file: the version that fits a real home

Most people do not fail at handing over a condition file from misunderstanding it. They fail because understanding is not doing. What follows is the…

Harriet LowellHarriet Lowell·July 31, 2026·4 min read